Bernard Paul

Bernard Paul is a writer and editor for You Can Officiate. He lives in Berlin and enjoys playing the bass and painting in his free time.

How AI Might Change Wedding Ceremonies

In the last couple years it’s becoming harder to deny the growing influence Artificial Intelligence (AI) is having on our daily lives. We use it to supply us with the latest recipes, guide our career choices, and create better business models. A lot of us are wondering what the limitations of this massive intelligence network is, and how it will …

Rock ‘n Roll Wedding Ceremony Script

Are you planning on rocking out at your wedding? Well, that’s perfectly understandable. I mean, how else are you supposed to celebrate your big day? Whether you’re rockin’ out to slower barbershop melodies from the 1920’s or head banging to 90’s grunge classics, we’re all about celebrating your marriage with rock n’ roll pizzaz you deserve! So without further ado, …

Music Themed Wedding Ceremony Script

Here’s the music themed wedding ceremony script you’ve been waiting for! Whether you’re a pro musician or just an avid fan of car karaoke, a lover of rock or blues, or a contemporary pop or jazz musician, it doesn’t matter. This ceremony script is designed for music lovers of every kind, regardless of their preferred genres, personal styles, or life …

Drag Queen Wedding Ceremony Script

Hey Queen! Here’s a drag queen wedding ceremony script that will get everyone, and I mean everyone making it rain! The idea is that the wedding officiant is simultaneously a drag queen performer and leads the ceremony with the same flair and attitude you might see at a drag show. Feel free to make as many changes as you wish …

How to Include a Sand Mixing Ceremony in your Wedding

A sand mixing ceremony is a beautiful and symbolic ritual that adds a creative and engaging touch to your wedding ceremony. It represents the joining of two individuals and their families into a single, unified entity. Although candle lighting ceremonies are also quite beautiful, the glass of mixed sand remains a tangible reminder of your wedding vows and the blending

How to Include Children in Your Wedding Ceremony

So you’re planning a family friendly wedding and want to include the kiddos! That’s really great because children love to feel included in what might normally be seen as an event for adults. In this article, we’ll talk about different roles and tasks that children can fulfill at the wedding ceremony. 

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Age Appropriate Activities

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Creative Floral Touches for your Wedding Ceremony

Flowers are an integral part of wedding aesthetics, symbolizing beauty, love, and new beginnings. While bouquets and centerpieces are classic choices, there are countless creative ways to incorporate florals into your ceremony, adding a unique and personalized touch. Let’s explore some fresh and innovative ideas!  

Table Decor

Instead of a table runner, why not scatter petals along the center of …

How to Save Money on Wedding Food

Weddings can already be quite expensive even without the cost of food and catering services. With all the trimmings and trappings like floral arrangements, the bridal dress, and venue expenses it’s not long before you’ve racked up a lot more debt than you were hoping. Saving money on wedding food, while simultaneously providing a delicious meal for your wedding guests

The Power of Storytelling in Wedding Ceremonies

A wedding is perhaps the highlight of any couple’s love story. It’s the celebration of a bond that is so strong it can stand any test. But most importantly it’s about the couple’s story. Maybe they met on an island half-way across the world, or maybe they were highschool sweethearts or childhood friends. Perhaps the love story isn’t just about

Vegetarian Wedding Food Ideas

If you and your partner are vegetarian, or you simply want to have some vegetarian friendly options at your wedding, here’s some delicious meals that are sure to please all your guests. There’s plenty of great reasons to have a vegetarian wedding. First of all, proteins like peas and beans are a lot healthier than most meats. Second, vegetarian menus