Bernard Paul

Bernard Paul is a writer and editor for You Can Officiate. He lives in Berlin and enjoys playing the bass and painting in his free time.

How to Get Baptist Ordination

The Baptist denomination is one of the largest sectors of Christianity in the world and is the second largest within the United States. Because it is so large, it is also a quite diverse denomination with different requirements for ordination within different churches. Because churches are mainly independent of one another, an ordination in one is most likely invalid in …

How to Become a Rabbi

Rabbi’s are one of the most essential aspects of the Jewish faith. As scholars of the religion, they are thoroughly trained in Jewish law so they can conduct religious ceremonies and lead their congregation. Rabbi’s are looked up to by their community, and serve as a source of wisdom and guidance for their people. 

Rabbi reads from a Holy Book

Alternative Wedding Ideas

Are you tired of the cliche American wedding and looking for alternative wedding ideas? In this article we will explore some ways to keep your wedding interesting and different. We’ll talk about alternative wedding venues, ceremony and reception ideas. Let’s dive right in!

Alternative Wedding Venue Ideas

Imagine having your wedding in the middle of the woods! You could decorate …

Argentinian Wedding Traditions

This sunny, South American country full of vibrance and culture has some beautiful wedding traditions. Maybe you are trying to honor your South American roots or maybe you’re planning a destination wedding in Rio de Janeiro. Regardless of the reason, we’re excited to talk about what makes Argentinian wedding traditions unique and hopefully inspire you to include some traditions in …

Cheap Wedding Ideas

The insane cost of weddings these days is something that many Americans struggle with. Some people start saving years in advance of their wedding or going into thousands of dollars of debt. From hiring wedding planners to covering venue costs, catering services, hotels and transportation, it all adds up to a hefty amount. That’s why we’ve found some cheap wedding

Ten Thai Wedding Traditions

Sawateekap! Are you planning a traditional Thai wedding? Maybe you just want to include some Thai elements. Perhaps you’re planning a destination wedding in Thailand and just want to find out a bit more about the culture. In this article we’ll talk about ten popular Thai wedding traditions. 

Thai Wedding Dress – Neosiam

1. Choosing an Auspicious Wedding Date

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10 Unique Wedding Gift Ideas

Are you having a hard time deciding what to get the couple for their wedding? Don’t worry, we’re here to help you brainstorm for some fun and unique wedding gift ideas. Let’s jump right in!

Wedding Art – Pixabay

1. Gift an Experience

Gift a couple an experience like a romantic restaurant night, tickets to their favorite band or a …

How to Find the Perfect Wedding Dress

As a bride-to-be, picking out the perfect wedding dress is one of the biggest decisions you’ll make for your wedding day. This article should make this decision a lot easier for you to finalize.

“Should I go with a short or long sleeve wedding dress?” or “Should I buy a traditional white dress or choose something a little more modern?” …

Loving Meditations for Your Wedding Day

Are you concerned how you will feel on wedding day? Maybe you are looking for ways to be more present and centered on your wedding day? This article will provide you with tips on how to decompress and find that quiet place to prepare for the next chapter of your life.

Meditating Couple – Photo by Kampus Production

Wedding Day

How to Choose the Perfect First Dance Song

The first dance is one of the most beautiful parts of the ceremony but choosing the perfect first dance song can be one of the most challenging parts of planning the wedding. The couple has just expressed their love for each other and vowed to remain faithful until the end of their days. They then take the dance floor to …